And so after all the shouting and screaming and crying, and a couple of days apart, we met up and had sensible talks.
He said it would be best for both of us if we cease any contact for a couple of months, to try and get used to the situation, to help me move on….
…That lasted no more than a few hours…. His reason? He ‘couldn’t help himself’ then again a few hours later, and pretty much every time he has had any sort of Internet signal since….perhaps even more than back when things were ok and normal with us. But why? He made his choice.
His mind is still made up, he has read the things I gave him and his life is still ‘taking care of his family’ he will ‘stay a victim and in misery for their happiness’ he ‘can’t help it, it has been taught from childhood’ … His words.